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When it comes to building a relationship with a special someone that you love and care for, its sometimes inevitable to encounter problems and discover bad habits that can cause serious harm to your relationship. Its important for you to identify what these habits are, so youll be able to find ways that can effectively help you deal with these.

One of the most common habits that can seriously hurt a relationship is jealousy. Its unhealthy for someone to always have doubts against their partner. There may be some cases wherein a partners suspicion is true. However, it doesnt always mean that whenever you suspect your partner of having another intimate relationship with another person, your suspicion is true. If you are always thinking about the idea that your partner is with someone else, then this can turn as a bad habit. Its important for you to be reasonable about this; otherwise youd only be making your partner feel that theyre not worth your trust.

Whenever your partner is talking to you, its important for you to listen. By paying attention, youre making your loved one feel that youre interested in what he or she has to stay, and that you care so much for them. When you dont listen with care, and only choose what you want to hear, this can make your partner feel hurt. Its common to see many couples who do not pay enough attention to each other. If you make it a habit to not listen carefully to your partner, then youll be doing more harm than good to your relationship. One of the best ways to help you learn how to listen mindfully is to join a mindfulness class. This is where youll be able to learn from a good mindfulness coach about how to communicate mindfully.

In a long-term relationship, some people end up developing bad habits. This is especially true when people tend to be too dependent on their partners. When they get the habit of being overly reliant to their partner, what usually happens is that theyll eventually lose the ability to depend on themselves. If you find yourself getting too dependent on your partner, its important for you to realize that this is an unhealthy habit. Make an effort at learning to take care of yourself, so youll also learn how you can take care of your partner.

Its natural to have arguments from time to time. This is one way of dealing with your differences, which then gives both you and your partner a chance to settle things. Realize that you may not agree on everything, but you can always choose to talk about it and compromise. This can somehow help both of you grow, and perhaps bring out the best in each other. However, the problem about having arguments is when you yell to each other, or show other aggressive behaviour like throwing away things or hitting something. Also, when you bring up old issues that can only make your argument even worse, this can turn out to be really hurtful for both of you.

Asking questions, making requests, or repeatedly telling your partner something is alright, just as long as youre not being a nag. Understand that getting into the habit of nagging your partner is unhealthy. Find ways to stop nagging. Instead of being a nag, learn how you can communicate effectively instead.

In order to help keep you maintain a healthy relationship, its really important to continue finding ways to get rid of bad habits. Understand that the key to improving your relationship is to constantly be sensitive enough to notice bad habits, and be more than willing to do whatever it takes to get rid of it.

When you hit the thirties then the scales of youth gradually start falling. You start seeking the deeper meaning of life and one of the things you change apart from your wardrobe s your friendships so how should it go?

1.You’re alike

There has to be some similarities whether it be love of coffee, politics, literature, movies, or even people watching. There just has to be a common ground. I have a specific friend whose personality is so different from mine that other people wonder why we are friends. However, what they don’t know is that we share a mutual likeness for watching Korean dramas and gory films and then talking about it later over coffee.

2. You show each other mutual respect

Every smart person knows that respect is earned and real friends respect each other. They know when they need to be quiet and give you privacy and space or when they should shake you back to your senses. My friends give me advice whether solicited or not but they respect my decision even if they don’t agree with it.

Sourced from:http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/what-friendship-should-look-like-your-thirties.html

Fake friends do not come with a label that reveals so. They are like the green snake in the green grass but the thing is they will always leave one or two clues expose them. For you to overcome the sway of fake friends you have to know how to deal with them and still hold you head up high.

If the friend is only an occasional friend or person you deal with, cutting off communication during your working toward your goal may be wise. If your saboteur is a family member, this may be impossible, but otherwise, since they aren’t a real friend anyway, I would let them go.

State your goals clearly to your supportive friends, and have them with you whenever you are engaged with these family members or fake friends you cannot cut out of your life. That way, your supportive friends can help support your mission in the midst of naysayers.

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Minimize the amount of focus you give your goals when in the presence of fake friends. Since fake friends focus on their own goals and needs, they won’t miss what you don’t bring up.

Become more comfortable being alone. Having fake friends drains a lot of energy. Save that energy you give away to fake friends to accomplish more of what you want to in life.

Sourced from:http://blog.chron.com/loveandrelationships/2012/06/fake-friends-arent-friends-but-do-smile/

You might now be wondering how else you can make true friends if the ones you had were not true. Well true people make good friends you simply have to know how to find them because most of the times they are the most misunderstood people.

Much like with family members, you can go extended stretches of weeks or months without talking and hanging out consistently, yet there’s no doubts about your relationship. Schedules get busy, circumstances arise, but your friendship remains fully intact.

They are sincerely happy to see you have any type of success. Not the lying-through-my-teeth fake smile and bogus “Screw you, why not me? Ohhhh, well good for you!” – but legitimate excitement and congratulations.

Sourced from:http://thoughtcatalog.com/christopher-hudspeth/2013/08/25-signs-someone-is-a-real-true-friend/